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Sunday, 6 July 2014

Why I Married Ese Walters After Scandal-Benny Ark

After Ese Walter's infamous confession
about her affair with pastor Bimbo
Fatoyimbo in 2013, no one knew it
would be easy for her to find love, but
surprisingly, less than a year later,she
was married to popular radio
personality with Cool FM, Abuja, Benny
Ark..He opened up to the Sun on why
he married her and how people reacted
Amazingly, the people around us
were supportive and
understanding. It was some
outsiders who were not privy to a
whole lot of stuff that were making
some kind of remarks. But the truth
is, we were just friends when she
told me about what happened. I
was pained and hurt because here
was a man who I held in high
esteem. I only told her to do what
she had to do because she felt like
she was enslaved by something she
didn’t have control over. And when
she tried to reach out for disclosure
that would have led to her healing,
she was treated badly by some
people who sent the message that
some person is untouchable. I
can .....
tell you that she reached out not
once or twice. In the end, she did
what she did for her peace of mind
and to encourage others who are in
a similar situation. She opened up
not because she is the boldest
person; she knew that she was
taking a big risk. But she opened
up because she is someone who has
a conscience and will not stand for
something wrong. Her making that
bold move endeared her to me.
When she came out with the truth, I
believed her, having heard the
same story two or three times from
other women. When she spoke out,
she was attacked. But I believe that
with her simple act of speaking the
truth, she not only liberated herself
but also other women in a similar
situation.

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